Why is a womans worth tied into how many men she has had with?

There are really two reasons for this. First, it's actually biological/psychological that men find promiscuous women less attractive subconsciously. Studies have been done showing that men find women who are less ually aggressive than men more attractive. When a man sees a promiscuous or scantily clad women the sight registers in the part of his brain ociated with tools. We see them as objects, not relationship material. Check out the Clause studies. It's actually about the effects of the birth control pill on pheromones but it has some other interesting stuff tied into it. Second, it's really women who promote these ideas. A man will simply not pursue a woman he finds to be too ual. Women, on the other hand, will persecute and ostracize another woman for such actions. Take a little responsibility for your own gender. Finally, is it really any wonder that this happens? Women were granted their equality and all they seem to have been able to accomplish with it is indulging their own ual fantasies and then crying foul when they're held accountable for their actions. If you act like a then people will treat you like a . Men get called dogs by women all the time. It's actually far more acceptable for women to insult men this way than vice versa. The difference is that men don't really care what women think. Women are far more judgemental of themselves and of other women.